Expressing your love to God.

This is really an extreme title because some people who doesn't in the same ways with ours will say," you are ridiculous."

If we take a look real close, how many of us can show our love feeling to God? We do express our love feeling to other people many times, but why not to God? We have so many denominations, so many religions and beliefs in this world to get happiness in life. We cannot judge which one the better or worse.

Hey...
What is the connection between religion or expressing your love with happiness?

The simple answer of that question is if you fall in love with somebody don't you feel happy?

That is falling in love with people, so can you imagine if every single time you fall in love with God and express it by listening what God's say in many ways. And please, do not stuck with the thought of variety of religions, beliefs, or sciences. It will make you stay in the place within argue for nothing. You will start to claim that yours is the best one. I believe that is not what God wants in the diversity that He created.

Just feel it (as you know we can not describe what is love) because it's dealing with feelings.

Well, let us start to express God's love in our life and feel it. Do not search it, because I believe He will give you abundance of happiness if you ask for it.

Does happiness an impossible thing?

Everyday, how often do you hear around about complaining, whinning, protesting and many other unsatisying? But don't you think that is not many people said about how happy they are, how lucky they are, how grateful they are? Nope..wait a minute, don't get upset, I am saying this in global. How many times when you ask somebody, how are you? And they said: "hang in there" instead of fantastic!

Be honest! We struggled of judging ourselves by not satisfied. Why is that? Is being satisfied something hard to do equal with happiness?

Satisfying is the expression of not getting what we expect. After we don't get what we expect then we try comparing with others, and next we begin to complain, after that we whine, last but not least we feel awful of ourselves and claimed that we are the most suffered person in this world.

It is really hard to stop doing that especially if we deal with "the turbulence of our life."

As a matter of fact, the motivation to fulfill your satisfaction is shift the state of mind to be a sanguine(optimistic) and stop judging yourselves. All of us know that this is not an easy way to do. But, we have got to do what we got to do. Learn and train. Learn to be optimist and train doing that, also stop judging yourself. Do this action every single time until you get used to it.

I suggest the best thing you can do for the first time is do the best of whatever you deal with now, and do not be bothered or compare with others. Because something good for others will not guarantee that it will good for you. Keep doing that all the time and focused.

If you already get use to this track, the next step is being optimist that the result is always the best and it needs process to come that far. Failure doesn't mean that you are a looser, failure means you are in the process of being "ripe". Keep trying and doing and surely it will "sharpen a dull blade."

These two things will wonderfully push smiling to show on your face. Because your mind and heart are clean from being discouraged, hatred, jealous. If smile and clean heart and mind is already on your body system, what else you doubt for?

Like a wise word said,"life is full of choice and you have options to choose."

So, do you still think that being happy is impossible?

Great Expectation

If we look back when we were younger, we have so many expectation in life. We put all of standards of life to be a perfect one, such as graduate from Master Degree at 23 yo, get married at 25 yo, got kids-the most are three starting at 27yo, got to be success in career at 35, travelling arround the world with family at 40, got rich at 45yo...enjoy the retire with full of money at 50yo. If we can fulfill all these standard that we really don't know who make it, are we sure that it will make us happy?

What if we cannot make it, should we keep reminding our mind that we are a failure or a bigger loser?

Nope! It will not guarantee you to be happy deep inside of your heart. Do you know why? Because your life is like a robot. You followed "somebody's rule" even for other people as the way of their life or as a standard of their life, that is not fun at all because you will be tired of chasing after something that you even not sure.

Let's enjoy our own life with great expectation. For instance: get married at 35yo, so what? We get more mature and understand how to react on facing problems. At 40 you haven't got any kids, so what? We can plan about having kids with no worries about age. God made your life and death, why do you trust people...just take it easy. At 43yo you still poor, so what? You are not missing anything, you just to deal with your life that God gives it to you. Just trying to get enough from your work first, then try more concern about saving little by little of your money and then without realized you will have saving account. At 55yo you haven't got rich to get your retirement, so what? Just be happy that in such age you still productive, it will help your brain keep exercising instead of being lazy and make your brain malfunction.

Now, to make all the happiness come to us while your age "is not" fit on "the standard" are stop counting the age and make a huge expectation of whatever you do. For example: If you don't have money because your job has less hour, just make an expectation by thinking, if I am working in this company little bit longer then I will get the opportunity to sharpen my skill and to get more experience in this field which is a benefit for me on my resume (like studying but get paid), or if you have different life like others, just keeping on your mind that God loves you and make you unique, so why you bothered? Just enjoying whatever God gives you. If you want to ask some more about what should you think about great expection because you missed the "people's standard", just give me a note, let share!

Sceptic?

Do we know that 10 from 11 people are skeptic?

What is the meaning of sceptic anyway? Okay, according to WIKIPEDIA the definition of sceptic is:

(1) an attitude of doubt or a disposition to incredulity either in general or toward a particular object;
(2) the doctrine that true knowledge or certainty in a particular area is impossible; or
(3) the method of suspended judgment, systematic doubt, or criticism that is characteristic of skeptics (Merriam–Webster).
(4) an inquiry,
(5) a method of obtaining knowledge through systematic doubt and continual testing,
(6) the arbitrariness, relativity, or subjectivity of moral values,
(7) the limitations of knowledge,
(8) a method of intellectual caution and suspended judgment.

For me, sceptic is trying to protect ourselves by judging negatively. We judged by the cover. Before we know what is going on, we just assumed that it is not good and not try to listen and or understand about that.

As the person who dealt with this matter every single time, the good tips for that is keep convincing them and ignore what they were thinking. Probably you will get the attitude from them, that is allright because our goal is deliver the message to them and let them decide it. And we still be a happy person without getting bothered by their attitude.

How about that?

Self centered...

Have you realized before that there is a tendencious to have a self centered at each of us? We like to be heard than hearing. That is why whenever we are being ignored of so many reasons we become very upset to that person.

Hmmmh...if we live in such "sensitive" feeling, I am very sure that all kind of disease will be happy to live in your body. Stress, and depresed or exccesive anger will be enjoyed visiting or may stay on your body. They will make the whole body systems a hard time to work normal. Then slowly but sure, they will invite Mr. Heart Attack!

Do you want to live like that for the entire life? By having problem breathing or thinking.

We believe that being so sensitive (selfish) will shorten your life. Let's digest about this.

Yes, and that is the truth, because if we are so sensitive about everything, we will upset very easily and make your heart is pumping hard because of anger. The heart is overworking, then what? Then get heart attack and so on, and so on.

We know exactly that is really hard not to sensitive or not to self centered, especially to the person who get used to be a centered attention in the family. The simple thing to do to get rid of this self centered is listening and closing the mouth tightly. Once, you can do it, it will exercise your patient and mind. The more you are doing that the more patient you will get. And then you will do it automatically with no burden anymore.

Do you want to try or share your experiment?

Birthday, is it important to you?

Believe me or not, almost 100% people in this world love their birthday, only a view who don't like it with some reasons--like: pain of the past [POP] or probably fear of the future[FOF].

If we see life in positive way, we will grateful that we got the opportunity to enjoy the beauty of nature. Away from all the anger, the matters and the sadness, we can just see the nature for a few second, you will amaze with that. You will realized that plants, animal really enjoy their life even though they are not living in fancy ways. Try it once, I am sure you will not believe what will you see.

Talking about the birthday and life, you have to admit that the day of your birthday you will feel more happy. Even though sometimes people who know you not remember at all or you not getting any gifts at all. But be honest now, be honest about how you feel.

Oh yes, whenever we celebrate our birthday either with friends and relatives or by yourselves, you will start to count the age. Ages!Some are getting panic if the wrinkles and gray hairs showed up and some worried about fortune but there are some people who don't care at all. It is really exciting to know how we react to face the birthday. I don't think nobody like their birthday.

So, what do you think about birthday, is it important or not for you?

Weather Report

The weather report on TV said it is going to be mix between rain and snow,so some schools and offices are delay or even close. It has been a crazy days this year. Even the forecast man keeps changing the report some times. What happened?

We are not sure what had happened but surely nothing can be sure anymore, except The One who created us.

We are not happy about the cold weather or messy days or hot days or humid days. We complained about all those things. If we look back and stay away for a minute in "sanctuary place" and see if we can enjoy all the matter that make us complain all the time.

How about we enjoy the cold weather by going outside and feel the chilly thing on your face then come back in, and feel the blood stream on your body system. That is wonderful feeling. And enjoy the messy rainy day with put the raincoat on and go outsite and put your barehand on the rain with your palms are facing the rain, feel the rain drops on your palms. It feels like the rain is massaging your hands. That is amazing feeling too, very relaxing.

Well, how about in a hot weather. Some country have a very hot sunshine, and sometimes in US got a very hot sunshine with high humid too. We cannot enjoy it by going outside. What we can do is enjoying this time by making a small green house and watch how the plan grows and enjoy the crops as well, especially vegetables or fruits or flowers.

See guys, there are many things that we can enjoy the life even in a very bad shape weather.

A quitter?

That word means a lot to me, especially when somebody has been through hardship way. If we see the global economic situation like now, it happens almost in all over the world. You could imagine in many parts of this world has suffered of hengoroedem--starving. For some people who don't have any crisis might be will say, I am good, thanks. But what happened to the people who lives from pay check to pay check. We can't get any hours or new job. The bills are higher and higher the income is getting low and lower.

What should we do? Should we give up with this situation? C'mon now, we need to eat, we need to entertain in life so we don't have to live in stress all the time. But how?

Marketing! I think everybody would agree of these solutions. In such situation, old clothes can be money, hobbies such as photography, or painting or even craft can be good to make money. But what if the people don't have any skill or experience of marketing or sell stuffs. The key of this is willing to do it and optimistic. If we pay any attention to any kind of real store, they put all the items and wait for the customer to see and probably buy it, and it happens to online store too. So just be patient guys...and don't quit!

Not sure?

Many people feel not sure anymore with this life. We are just worn out with whatever happened. We try to work everyday with short hour and short money. Trying real hard to pay the bills and everything. Whinning about when all of this thing will be over.
Until we see how the time goes by and the wrinkles show up.

Some people are asking to God,"why?" and some ask to a godes, "give me." Yes, it is really scary if we are talking about money nowadays. The one who owns the big bucks act like they are a god. They can do everything (like mistreating people) to pamper themselves. I got in this situation as well, the god treat me like I am easy to "push-in." Do I care? I did, but not anymore. I was sad and stressed out by them, but then I realized they are not worthy enough to fill my brain and heart with their "residue". No sir!
Let them stress out, or got heart attack by their own anger. It seems that I am so mean, it's okay if you thought that way to me, I let people make their own opinion or judge.

The bible said about forgive and forgive, hey it was not easy for me to do it too, but once you can do it, it makes your life easier. If you are not sure about it ask me how I do that, i would be glad to share with you.