Does happiness an impossible thing?

Everyday, how often do you hear around about complaining, whinning, protesting and many other unsatisying? But don't you think that is not many people said about how happy they are, how lucky they are, how grateful they are? Nope..wait a minute, don't get upset, I am saying this in global. How many times when you ask somebody, how are you? And they said: "hang in there" instead of fantastic!

Be honest! We struggled of judging ourselves by not satisfied. Why is that? Is being satisfied something hard to do equal with happiness?

Satisfying is the expression of not getting what we expect. After we don't get what we expect then we try comparing with others, and next we begin to complain, after that we whine, last but not least we feel awful of ourselves and claimed that we are the most suffered person in this world.

It is really hard to stop doing that especially if we deal with "the turbulence of our life."

As a matter of fact, the motivation to fulfill your satisfaction is shift the state of mind to be a sanguine(optimistic) and stop judging yourselves. All of us know that this is not an easy way to do. But, we have got to do what we got to do. Learn and train. Learn to be optimist and train doing that, also stop judging yourself. Do this action every single time until you get used to it.

I suggest the best thing you can do for the first time is do the best of whatever you deal with now, and do not be bothered or compare with others. Because something good for others will not guarantee that it will good for you. Keep doing that all the time and focused.

If you already get use to this track, the next step is being optimist that the result is always the best and it needs process to come that far. Failure doesn't mean that you are a looser, failure means you are in the process of being "ripe". Keep trying and doing and surely it will "sharpen a dull blade."

These two things will wonderfully push smiling to show on your face. Because your mind and heart are clean from being discouraged, hatred, jealous. If smile and clean heart and mind is already on your body system, what else you doubt for?

Like a wise word said,"life is full of choice and you have options to choose."

So, do you still think that being happy is impossible?